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Thursday, 29 June 1989 5:16 P

To continue with my story, we stayed up all night playing UNO, playing video games, watching T.V., exercising, and going for late-night walks. In the end, we wound up falling asleep on the couch with the T.V. on at about 5:30. Dolly woke us up at about 6:15 to ask us about the bags. When she left, we hung around the house a little longer, taking showers & exercising. A little later, we walked with Patti’s bike to the mall, but it wasn’t going to open until 9:00, so we hung around in the mall’s laundromat, the only thing open there.

around 11:00 P

What we planned to do was buy a bike on sale, pay $5 to have this kid put it together, then bike home to pick up our bags & head for Dawn’s. Unfortunately, the kid wouldn’t get there until 4:00, but that didn’t make any difference because they were out of the bikes on sale. We ended up walking home with the bike. Before we got home, though, we passed an old-looking cemetery and I convinced Patti to stop there. We parked the bike a little way in and wandered off in separate directions to read the old tombstones. Just being in the cemetery gave you a sense of mystery and adventure. Nobody had been buried in over 30 years and most were from the 1800’s. It was just like the kind you see in scary movies, with the tombstones tilted to the side, some large monuments, most too worn to read, some half-buried, and some were stacked up or leaning against others. It was really eerie, even in the daytime. There were a bunch of kids playing nearby in their backyard, and you could just imagine all the adventures they would have there and the memories they would make. They had a little, white, scruffy dog that kept following us around, barking at us. You could tell he was really scared of us because he kept at least 5 feet away and would jump back if we moved in his direction. He added to the mystery, because it seemed as though he was protecting the spirits by trying to scare us away. Eventually we left and continued toward the downtown area. When we got there we stopped at the animal shelter. There was a small collie with his front paw & leg in what looked like a cast. Apparently he decided it would be fun to chase a lawn mower.

2:15 A

I just finished writing a letter to Raul, a hispanic guy whose a friend of Trevor’s, Patti’s boyfriend. I wrote it in all Spanish to see if he can translate it. Patti got out her camera & took a really cool picture of me without my glasses, then I took one of her with a small water gun. Her hair looked a really cool shade of red & really nice.

Anyway, at the animal shelter Patti adopted a furry white kitten with grey on top of her head. We couldn’t decide between Princess or Sugar.

 

Tuesday, 16 May 1989 5:43 P

I suppose it’s about time I wrote to you again. It’s been nearly 3 months. We now have a white (very nice) station wagon as well as the little blue Spirit w/the sun roof. We got rid of the brown station wagon when a car got in Barbara’s way while she was driving it. It was the other driver’s fault. 3 days ago was exactly 1 year since I got my license & in that year I drove maybe 4 times. The 13th was also Angie’s birthday. She’s 15. It’s hot out & I have my fan on. School ends the 31st. I’m doing terrible in all of my resolutions (Jan 12th). Sarah has her own trike & her favorite word is “Sarah’s?” On Friday I was confirmed w/8 other churches besides mine; the Bishop was there. Several things happened since February 26. And warm weather is the best thing.

Thursday, 9 March 1989

It all started exactly one week ago. We knew the day before that our grandma was very ill. We also knew several relatives were coming down to see her. For that reason, we were told to clean the house as soon as we got home. At 3:30 Joey, Angie, and I bounded off the bus happily, excited about seeing our cousins. We ate chocolate pudding as our after-school lunch, watched “OPRAH” on T.V., danced around to Footloose, and did basic cleaning.

I remember the phone kept ringing, interrupting me as I made supper. My mom called a couple times for messages and info about the relatives. One time my cousins called and we all talked to Katie. Katie is now 12, but we haven’t seen her since she was about 9 years old. There was a big dispute between Katie’s mom and the rest of the family that kept us apart. It’s hard to tell exactly when it started. It could’ve started when Grandma was driving at night with Katie in the car when Katie was about 6 or 7. My grandma accidentally went off the edge of the road and into the ditch. Katie wasn’t hurt in the least; in fact, she was sleeping in the back seat at the time, and when the car was stopped she rolled onto the floor and continued to sleep. But for some reason Martha was very upset. She wrote a cruel letter to my Grandma that is believed to have caused her to have a minor heart attack, which began a series of medical problems.

I think Lou had a lot to do with the bitterness between Martha and the rest of the family which developed later on. Lou is Martha 2nd husband. She remarried about 4 or 5 years ago, after having written to him several times. That is how they met. I think it was Martha who put the ad in the paper about wanting a pen pal. They began to write to each other, then talked on the phone. After a while, Lou came to visit and soon they were married. Ever since then, things became heated. Lou is a quiet, fat, and bald man. He barely talks to the adults and never smiles. One of the first things he did were to make Katie give all her toys away. Many were given to us. Soon Katie was calling him “Daddy,” whether by force or choice, I’m not sure.

It is also believed by some that it started a couple summers ago, when we all got together to clean Grandma’s house. Apparently George made a small comment to Martha that some of us already knew what we were getting. George doesn’t remember saying that, but Martha said he did & ever since Martha’s been writing extremely wicked letters to Grandma, saying we were stealing her [Grandma's] money, we were not letting Martha have any of Grandma’s things, and that she was going to take us to court when Grandma dies. Then she tells Grandma that she [Martha] & Jesus love her, & we’ll be punished by God.

Sunday, 26 February 1989 10:48 P (2/28)

I don’t think I’ll make it to the 28th tonight. We went to the 9:30 mass with Dolly & Mr. Peterson picked me up at 11:45. I didn’t get home until about 6:00 P.M. & when I did get home, Dolly was gone & Jarrett was here. Joey & Claire slept for a few hours, so I read a really good book called Up a Road Slowly. I can’t remember the author’s name. Patti called right after they woke up, crying. She always calls when it seems like I’m being a lousy babysitter. Speaking of babysitting, Jarrett babysat Sarah tonight while Barbara brought Debbie back, who was here for a couple hours.

Friday, 24 February 1989 10:27 P (2/28)

I nearly fell asleep standing up at Sacred Heart. It was so boring! There was nothing there for me to do, really. Every 15 minutes I filed one paper, if I was lucky. I was there for 2 1/2 hours! I’m slowly catching up on the Bible & diary. On Monday is the test on Tartuffe. Dolly came down today & stayed in Angie’s room. Angie stayed with me. Jarrett will come down this weekend. (Actually, he already left, but you’ll find out about that later!) I’m babysitting for the Petersons on Sunday while Micky’s at the wrestling tournament in Smallville. We used to live in Jackson, a tiny place by Smallville.

Wednesday, 22 February 1989 10:53 P

Patti was on time today. Micky got a ride home with Jesse & his mom, so he got there before I did. We played way too much Super Mario Bros. We were still playing when Patti got home a little before 6:00. I felt guilty because Micky wanted to finish the game, so I killed myself (actually, Luigi). Miss Casey had us watch Tartuffe today. We saw a scene where they showed his bottom. He was trying to seduce a guy’s wife. Miss Casey is always trying to corrupt us. I bet she plays Dungeons & Dragons. It’s a terrible game; don’t ever play it. Do you take tests on Scan-Tron? Or is that too old-fashioned? Is Jenny still a popular name? Or Missy?

Sunday, 19 February 1989 11:20 P (2/19)

This is not being written in the future. This is being written tonight. I went to church this morning, to find out I missed the Rite of Enrollment for confirmation, which was the mass before that one. I wonder what else I missed? Then I shovelled the driveway. After dinner everyone went to see an Elvis impersonator at Central Mall. I wonder if it will still be there when you read this? Anyway, I stayed home to get some things done. I read a book instead. Bob got sick overnight & was recovering when Barbara caught it. Sarah had to eat at our house. What is the future like? Do you eat pizza & drink pop? Do you drive station wagons & sports cars? Do you still have nuclear weapons? Just curious.

Saturday, 18 February 1989 11:06 P (2/19)

I’m writing this 1 day in the future. I overslept this morning & got up with 10 minutes to get ready to babysit. What do you expect when I didn’t get to bed until 2:30 A.M. & had to wake up at 7:00 to babysit at 8:00. I’m just grateful Jesus woke me up before Mr. Peterson got there. Claire kept getting into everything from peanut butter to paper towels. I got home about 1:00 & did general cleaning until 6:45, when I babysat for Barbara & Bob. They went to the opera w/Debbie at the university. Sarah was absolutely adorable, even though she would not leave my purse alone & complained about going to bed. She’s so smart & lovable. Barbara & Bob didn’t get home until about midnight. Tomorrow Barbara has the flu.

 

Friday, 17 February 1989 10:42 P (2/19)

This is being written in the future, 2 days from now. This week at Sacred Heart was a bit different from last week. I not only filed the papers from the printers, but I also ran off copies of papers and delivered papers to every floor except the basement, as well as a few rooms on 1st floor. Then I went to the Rogers’, where Sam kept trying to steal candy & Josie couldn’t sleep. (I almost started telling you about tomorrow.) I came home so tired that I didn’t write or read the Bible. I just finished another Serenade/Serenata book. They’re a series of Christian romances in modern time. I love them! By the way, I hate cold feet at night but Angie loves them. I’m talking literally. I’m so behind in everything! I better catch up!

Wednesday, 15 February 1989 10:52 P

Today there was a donut sale, popcorn, nachos, AND ice cream; and I still don’t have change! After babysitting at the Peterson’s I got about 1/2 hour at home before I went to Barbara’s to babysit Sarah. I was there ’til 10:30. I could hear Mom yelling before I even set foot in the house. Apparently, Susie has 25 late assignments. She stays in for recess, and some boys are always picking on her. And the dumb teacher didn’t even tell Mom until today! She didn’t even know about the boys bothering her. St. Bart’s isn’t worth the money put into it. I pray Susie gets an attitude change, but I know how extremely difficult that can be in her position w/the understanding of a 9-yr-old.

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